Evening my lovelies,
Today has been a whole roller-coaster of emotions, lets start by stating that I had to do trains (if you have anxiety you will know what I mean). The whole hustle and bustle.. screaming children, shoving, barging, people talking to you etc etc. Its something I cant deal with. I found it a lot easier on my outward journey than I did my inward.
I have always had this immense fear of disappointing people. Especially when i’m always trying my hardest not to disappoint others. I had made arrangements to see my ISVA and my therapist today which meant that Anxiety really had to eff off no matter how bad so I could get there and not disappoint them. (Shout out to my lovely ladies for making me feel that little bit better).
Anyway today has been hectic and non stop. On the plus side there was a gap in between appointments which worried me as it meant I had to wait around in a busy town center on my own… (again, not my fortè) I managed to dive through the town with my ISVA and she introduced me to a little book store.. one of them really cute ones you see in the movies. I spent my hours in there admiring all the books and poetry, then I imagined that could be me some day. When and not If I get better that could be me.
I’ve always loved writing, ever since I was little. As my therapist said to me today ‘Everyone has a book in them and you my lovely have an experience to share.’ My poetry as of late has been very intimate and something which I’m not ready to share publicly as of yet but when I do you guys will be some of the first to get to experience that. However ill I may be at this present time doesn’t change that I do have a dream just like other people. Mine will just take a little bit more hard work to get there and I will need a little more convincing to believe I can achieve that.
My journey home on the trains were much more eventful My Mental Health did take a slight detour and I ended up on the floor experiencing a flashback and then two panic attacks. Unfortunately for me there were bystanders and whilst some do intend to try to help it heightens the fear within me. The normal feelings after something like that is embarrassment and shame, because I have not fully learnt how to deal with that part of my illnesses yet. I am channeling my inner therapist though and she would tell me ‘It is okay to feel like that but I will tell you it isn’t true’.
I took the above picture afterwards when I had regained my balance. It was dark out and everything around me was silent. I walked toward the platform edge. Tips of my feet hanging off and just stood looking ahead. But for those few moments something told me that it wasn’t going to end like this. I did shuffle backward and look at my surroundings and notice a sense of familiarity with what could have been and what was. See my train arrived no more than two minutes later and suddenly I felt an urge to cry. Not for my own well being but for others.
Right now I am keeping somewhat strong for those around me that I love and that love me. Sometimes it can be hard to see but it is there. I cant change what has happened. I can’t mold what will happen in the near future as it will not be my decision but one day I hope that if I stand on the platform edge I will back away not just for the people I love but for me and my health being too.
One day I will have a book on the bookshelf I hunted through today and one day someone else would have read this and reconsidered there steps on the platform edge.
Until then, here I am. Always here, for every pair of eyes that read this.
Stay strong, Stay focused, Stay with me.